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A 30-DAY CHALLENGE · CLINICALLY REVIEWED · STARTS NOV 16
Stop people-pleasing in 30 days. Five minutes a day.
Thirty days, five minutes a day, to stop the automatic yes, find the words and hold the line without the guilt. Everyone starts together on Monday, November 16, and every day is checked by licensed therapists.
You're not selfish for wanting this. You're not broken. You just learned that keeping everyone happy was the price of being liked.
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You know the one. Someone asks for a favor and you say yes before they've finished the sentence. Then you're angry, at them and at yourself. You draft the text to cancel four times. You send none of them. You go, and you resent every minute.
Then the second voice starts. "Why can't I just say no? Other people do." So you read about boundaries. You practice a script in your head. Then the moment comes and you fold, because nothing you tried had a start date, a finish line, or anyone doing it with you.
That's why this is a challenge, not a course. Thirty days, five minutes each. Everyone starts on the same day. You get a tracker to tick, a group doing it with you, and a finish line on day 30. It starts with the body, not with scripts, because the yes comes out of a tense body before your mind gets a vote. And every day is reviewed by licensed therapists before it reaches you.
Say no without the guilt spiral. Simple words that are kind, clear, and don't need a paragraph of excuses.
Buy yourself time. One sentence that stops the automatic yes, so you decide instead of react.
Stop over-explaining. Short answers you can actually get out, and a rule for what you don't owe anyone.
Handle the pushback. What to do when they push, sulk, or guilt-trip, without caving or exploding.
Never do it alone. A group that starts with you, weekly check-ins, and therapists in the room.
Reviewed by licensed therapists. Every day's practice, before it reaches you. Not an influencer's routine.
Starts Monday, November 16. Everyone begins together,
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Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
WHY A CHALLENGE
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the difference between knowing what to do and actually doing it for 30 days.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
A course
Start whenever. Which means later.
Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Boundaries & People-Pleasing Challenge
Starts Monday, November 16, with everyone beginning on the same day.
Five minutes a day, whenever you have them: listen, do, write.
A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One day at a time
Your email lands early. Five minutes whenever your day has room: with coffee, at lunch, or last thing at night.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
One day at a time
Your email lands early. Five minutes whenever your day has room: with coffee, at lunch, or last thing at night.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Settle Kit, your final number, and a group that got there with you.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Clear Line Kit, your final number, and a group that got there with you.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU JOIN
Something real today. Day 1 on Monday. A finish line on Dec 15.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
Your 2-Minute
No lands
The emergency card and audio, in your inbox before you've closed this page. Use it tonight.
The room opens
The welcome video, the cohort thread and your workbook. Say hello, print the tracker.
Everyone
starts together
Your first email lands. Five minutes, whenever suits you. You rate your overthinking for the first time: measurement 1 of 3.
Halfway, measured
Your 2-Minute No is built and tested. Measurement 2, and a therapist check-in in the thread.
The finish line
Measurement 3, your Clear Line Kit on one page, and a cohort that got there with you.
Why telling yourself to calm down never works
You can't think your way out of a fired alarm.
Anxiety is a protective alarm that has learned to fire too easily. When it's going, the thinking part of your brain is offline, which is why every "just relax" you've ever been given, including from yourself, has bounced off.
So the challenge starts with the body. Weeks one and two give you tools that settle the alarm in under two minutes. Only then, in weeks three and four, does it retrain the mind, so worry stops running your day.
Weeks 1–2: the body
Breath, grounding, movement, release. Tools that work in minutes, not months.
Weeks 3–4: the mind
What to do with worry so it stops deciding your day. Sort it, park it, defuse it, approach it.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
Sound Familiar?
If any of these are yours, this challenge was built for you.
Tap the ones that sound like you.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
You say yes before they've finished asking.
You draft the text to cancel four times and send none of them.
You apologize for things that aren't yours.
You explain a no for three paragraphs, then say yes anyway.
You're the one everyone calls, and nobody asks how you are.
You're "fine" on the outside and on high alert on the inside.
You say yes before they've finished asking.
ou draft the text to cancel four times and send none of them.
You apologize for things that aren't yours.
You explain a no for three paragraphs, then say yes anyway.
You're the one everyone calls, and nobody asks how you are.
You're "fine" on the outside and quietly furious on the inside.
Tap the ones that are yours.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
WHY "JUST SAY NO" NEVER WORKS
You can't script your way out of a reflex.
People-pleasing isn't a character flaw. It's a reflex. Somewhere along the way your body learned that someone being unhappy with you meant danger, so now the "yes" fires before your mind gets a vote. That's why the script you rehearsed disappears the moment someone's face falls.
So the challenge starts with the body. In weeks one and two you learn to catch the reflex and settle the body in the moment, so there's a gap before you answer. Once that's reliable, weeks three and four give you the words, the rules, and the practice to use them, one small no at a time.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
WEEKS 1–2
The body: catch and pause
Spot the yes before it leaves your mouth, breathe, and buy time. Tools that work in minutes.
WEEKS 3–4
The words and the practice: say it and hold it
Short, kind sentences, what you don't owe anyone, how to handle pushback, and a ladder of small no's.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
THE SCIENCE BEHIND IT
Built on what therapists actually use, not what's trending.
Every tool in the challenge comes from methods with real research behind them: CBT, assertiveness training, ACT, breathing and body-based practice. Here is the science behind the main ones, in plain words.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
WEEK 1 · THE SPOTLIGHT
People notice you far less than you think
In a classic study, people wildly overestimated how much others noticed their mistakes and awkward moments. The "no" you're dreading will be forgotten by lunch. (Gilovich, Medvec & Savitsky, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 2000)
WEEK 3 · "I DON'T", NOT "I CAN'T"
Two words that make a no stick
People who said "I don't" instead of "I can't" when turning things down were far more likely to hold their line, because "I don't" sounds like who you are, not an excuse. (Patrick & Hagtvedt, Journal of Consumer Research, 2012)
WEEK 3 · LEARNING TO SAY IT
Speaking up can be trained
Decades of studies show that practicing clear, direct communication in small steps lowers anxiety and improves relationships, and it works as a treatment in its own right. (Speed, Goldstein & Goldfried, Clinical Psychology: Science and Practice, 2018)
WEEK 2 · THE PAUSE
A plan made in advance beats willpower
Deciding in advance, "If someone asks me for a favor, then I say: let me check and get back to you", works far better than hoping you'll manage it in the moment. A review of 94 studies found these if-then plans reliably change behavior. (Gollwitzer & Sheeran, Advances in Experimental Social Psychology, 2006)
WEEK 2 · BEFORE THE HARD CONVERSATION
Slow breathing calms the body fast
A long, slow breath out is the quickest way to settle a body that's bracing for someone's reaction. In a 2023 Stanford study, five minutes a day of slow breathing with a long exhale improved mood and lowered the body's stress signals after a month, more than a matching group doing meditation. (Balban et al., Cell Reports Medicine, 2023)
THE FORMAT · A COHORT WITH A START DATE
Why everyone starts on the same day
Research on "fresh starts" shows people are more likely to begin, and keep going, when a goal starts on a clear date. Add a tracker and a room full of people on the same day, and finishing becomes the normal thing to do. (Dai, Milkman & Riis, Management Science, 2014)
What changes
Day 1 and day 30 are different days.
Not a different person. The same person, with a kit.
The challenge uses these methods as self-care, not therapy, and the studies above were not done on this program. If you're seeing a therapist, bring the exercises to them. Many members use them between sessions.
What changes
Day 1 and day 30 are different days.
Not a different person. The same person, with a kit.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
A DAY IN THE CHALLENGE
Listen. Do. Write. Then get on with your day.
Here's day 9, exactly as it arrives. Two minutes to read, five to do. That's the whole commitment.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
LISTEN · 4:05
Let me check and get back to you
A guided version of the practice, so on the days you can't face reading, you press play.
DO · 2 MINUTES
Let me check and get back to you
Today, every time someone asks you for something, say this one line before anything else: "Let me check and get back to you." Out loud, even for small things. You're not saying no yet. You're breaking the reflex.
WRITE · IN YOUR WORKBOOK
Yes log
One line in your workbook: what was asked, what you said, what you wanted to say. Then tick day 9 on your tracker.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
WHAT CHANGES
Day 1 and day 30 are different days.
Not a different person. The same person, with a kit.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
Day 1
Day 1
Day 30
When they ask
Yes, before they've finished the sentence.
Saying no
Three paragraphs of excuses, then yes anyway.
The pushback
They sulk, you cave, you resent it for a week.
Your time
Everyone's but yours.
Your number
You rate your people-pleasing. It's high and it's been high a while.
What you own
Articles, podcasts and good intentions.
Day 30
"Let me check and get back to you." Then a real decision.
One kind sentence, no paragraph, and it holds.
A line for pushback, and a body that stays calm while you say it.
One thing a week that's yours, protected by a rule you wrote.
You rate it again. Most people see it move two to four points.
30 audios, the challenge workbooks, a full tracker, and a Clear Line Kit written in your own words.
When they ask
Yes, before they've finished the sentence.
Saying no
Three paragraphs of excuses, then yes anyway.
The pushback
They sulk, you cave, you resent it for a week.
Your time
Everyone's but yours.
Your number
You rate your people-pleasing. It's high and it's been high a while.
What you own
Articles, podcasts and good intentions.
"Let me check and get back to you." Then a real decision.
One kind sentence, no paragraph, and it holds.
A line for pushback, and a body that stays calm while you say it.
One thing a week that's yours, protected by a rule you wrote.
You rate it again. Most people see it move two to four points.
30 audios, the challenge workbooks, a full tracker, and a Clear Line Kit written in your own words.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
THE 30 DAYS AT A GLANCE
Four weeks, one exercise a day, three measurements.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
WEEK 1
Notice
Meet the reflex. The people-pleasing thermometer, the yes log, where it came from, your trigger map, the body before the yes.
WEEK 2
Pause
Buy time on demand. The long exhale, "let me check", the 24-hour rule, unclenching, the spotlight check. Build your 2-Minute No.
WEEK 3
Say it
Change what comes out of your mouth. The one-sentence no, "I don't", what you don't owe, handling pushback, the repair line.
WEEK 4
Hold it
A life with you in it. The ladder of small no's, your time rule, the guilt that isn't yours to carry, your people, your Clear Line Kit.
Days 1, 15 and 29: you rate your people-pleasing from 0 to 10 in the companion workbook. Three numbers, so you can see the change rather than take our word for it.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
WHAT YOU WALK AWAY WITH
Workbooks you'll still be using in a year.
Not loose pages. Real workbooks, one for each week of the challenge, yours to keep after day 30.
Why a challenge
This is a challenge, not a course. You don't watch it. You do it.
Courses get bought and never opened. Challenges have a start date, a daily deadline, people doing it with you, and a finish line. That's the whole difference, and it's the difference between knowing what to do and having done it for 30 days.
A course
- Start whenever. Which means later.
- Fourteen hours of video you'll watch at 1.5x and forget.
- Alone, with a progress bar nobody checks.
- No end, so it never quite finishes.
The Reset challenge
- Starts Sunday, November 15. Everyone, together.
- Five minutes a morning: listen, do, write. Then live your day.
- A cohort in the room, weekly check-ins, therapists who drop in.
- Day 30 is a finish line, with a number to show for it.
The rules of the challenge
One morning at a time
Your email lands at 6. Five minutes, before the day gets hold of you.
Do today's, never yesterday's
Missed a day? Do today's. No catching up, no guilt. Every tool stays yours.
Tick the day
Thirty boxes on your tracker. Watching them fill is half the reason people finish.
Reply with one word
Every email ends with a one-word check-in. A real person reads it.
Measure three times
Days 1, 15 and 29. The number that moves is yours, not ours.
Finish together
Day 30: your Reset Plan, your Reset Kit, and a cohort that got there with you.
WORKBOOK 1 · WEEK 1
Notice
People-pleasing thermometer, the yes log, trigger map.
WORKBOOK 2 · WEEK 2
Pause
"Let me check", the 24-hour rule, your 2-Minute No.
WORKBOOK 3 · WEEK 3
Say it
The one-sentence no, "I don't", handling pushback.
WORKBOOK 4 · WEEK 4
Hold it
The ladder of small no's, your time rule, your Clear Line Kit.
A two-minute Pause you can run anywhere, built from the body tools that worked for you
A way to say no that is kind, short, and holds: pause, one sentence, no paragraph
Your Clear Line Kit: three body tools, two sentences, one time rule, one person, on one page
EVERYTHING IN THE CHALLENGE
$169 of audios, tools and support. Founding members pay 90% less.
Sold on their own in our shop, the pieces of the challenge add up to $169. That is not what you pay. The founding cohort gets all of it for 90% off, as one thing: thirty days with everything around them, at a price we only offer once.
Your price is in the next section.
30 guided audios
three to five minutes each, press play
30 daily tools
a worksheet, tracker or pocket card every morning
The companion workbook and tracker
thermometers, weekly reflections, your Reset Plan
Welcome video and overview
day 0, so you know exactly what's coming
The cohort thread with therapist videos
same 30 days, same room, weekly input from licensed therapists
The 2-Minute Reset, today
emergency card and audio, in your inbox within a minute
The 8 pm nudge and a human reply
an optional daily text, and a person who answers within a day
Total value
Not what you pay. Founding cohort: 90% off
30 guided audios
three to five minutes each, press play
$47
The challenge workbooks
every exercise, tracker and reflection, as real workbooks you keep
$37
The 30-day tracker and weekly check-ins
your three measurements and the plan you build by day 30
$19
Welcome video and overview
day 0, so you know exactly what's coming
$9
The cohort thread with therapist videos
same 30 days, same room, weekly input from licensed therapists
$29
The 2-Minute No, today
emergency card and audio, in your inbox within a minute
$9
The 8 pm nudge and a human reply
an optional daily text, and a person who answers within a day
$19
Total value $169
Founding cohort pays 90% less
90% OFF
$17
Bonus: 7 Nights of Sleep
Seven short evening audios for the nights you replay what you should have said. Free while the countdown runs.
$19 FREE
WHO'S BEHIND IT
From the team behind The Daily Wellness, read by 100,000+ people every morning.
The tools in the challenge come from the same methods therapists use every day: CBT, assertiveness training, ACT, breathing and body-based practice. Every day has been reviewed by licensed therapists before it reaches you.
The founding cohort gets three things later cohorts won't: the founding price of $17 (90% off the $169 the pieces sell for), the therapist videos live as they're made, and the people who built it answering replies personally.
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one therapy session
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a year of a meditation app
Your founding price
$169$17
the whole 30-day challenge · one payment · 90% off
$150+
one therapy session
$70
a year of a meditation app
$169
$17
the whole 30-day challenge
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$150+
one therapy
session
$70
a year of a
meditation app
$169
$17
the whole 30-day challenge
90% OFF · ONE PAYMENT
Founding price until the countdown ends. One payment, no subscription.
WHY NOW
When the cohort starts, the doors close. There is no late entry.
When the countdown hits zero, the doors close. Not "the price goes up." They close. Everyone starts day 1 together, and nobody gets in after that, because a challenge only works when the whole room is on the same day. Miss it, and you wait for the next one, at a higher price, whenever that is.
That's the small cost. The bigger one is another month of 11 pm replays, another month of unsent texts, another month of "I'll decide when I've thought about it more." You've thought about it enough. Thirty days, five minutes a day, and people doing it with you.
Everyone starts Monday, November 16. If you join today, your 2-Minute Interrupt is in your inbox before you've closed this page, and you'll have used it before day 1.
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How it works
30 days: a guided audio, a practice and a workbook exercise
The challenge workbooks, the 30-day tracker, the welcome video
The cohort thread, with therapist videos through the month
The 2-Minute No in your inbox today
The optional 8 pm nudge, and a human reply within a day
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Founding cohort only. No late entry once day 1 starts, and this price isn't offered again.
30-Day Boundaries & People-Pleasing Challenge
$169
$17.00 (90% OFF)
$0.57 per day
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30 days, 30 guided audios, the challenge workbooks
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If you own a course you never finished, you've been let down before.
You bought it on a motivated Sunday. Did day one. Meant to go back. It's still sitting in a tab somewhere, quietly proving the story that you don't follow through. You've learned to be careful, because you've had to be.
We get it. It's why this isn't a course. It's thirty days with a start date, a cohort and a finish line, and a tracker you tick, one box a day, until day 30 says done.
Let's be honest for a second.
There's no money-back guarantee on the challenge. At $17, 90% off, we don't think it needs one. And a guarantee would make it too easy to join and never show up, which is the one thing this challenge is designed to stop. Here's what you get instead:
One payment. Nothing to cancel. $17 once. No subscription, no renewal, no surprise charges.
Change your mind before day 1? Full refund. Email [email protected] any time before Monday, November 16 and we'll refund you. Once the cohort starts, the price is final, for everyone
Something real today. Your 2-Minute Interrupt lands within a minute of joining. Use it tonight. If it isn't for you, you'll know before the challenge even begins.
Keep everything. Every audio, every tool, the workbook and your tracker are yours after day 30.
About 57¢ a day. Less than one coffee a week, and each day takes five minutes.
WHO IT’S FOR
Is This for You?
This challenge is for you if
People-pleasing is wearing you down, and you're still getting through your days
You've read the articles and listened to the podcasts, and you want something to actually do
You can find five minutes a day, most days, for 30 days
You're in therapy already and want daily practice between sessions
Please don't join if
You're in a relationship where saying no isn't safe. You deserve more than an email a day; please reach a professional or a helpline first
You're looking for a diagnosis, a treatment plan or a replacement for therapy
The Boundaries & People-Pleasing Challenge is educational self-care, not therapy or medical treatment. If you're having thoughts of harming yourself, contact a professional or a crisis line now (in the US, call or text 988).
This challenge is for you if
- Anxiety is wearing you down, and you're still getting through your days
- You've read the articles and listened to the podcasts, and you want something to actually do
- You can find five minutes a morning, most mornings, for 30 days
- You're in therapy already and want daily practice between sessions
Please don't join if
- You're in crisis, or anxiety is stopping you from functioning. You deserve more than an email a day; please reach a professional first
- You're looking for a diagnosis, a treatment plan or a replacement for therapy
The Anxiety Reset is educational self-care, not therapy or medical treatment. If you're having thoughts of harming yourself, contact a professional or a crisis line now (in the US, call or text 988).
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STILL THINKING ABOUT IT?
If you've read this far, you're doing the thing.
So here's the whole decision on one line: $17, a tool in your inbox tonight, a full refund until Monday, November 16, and a cohort that starts whether or not you've finished deciding.
BEFORE YOU DECIDE
What people ask before they join.
When does the challenge start, and what if I join late?
Everyone starts Monday, November 16. Emails arrive at 6 am in your time zone. Join any time before that: your 2-Minute Reset comes now, and the welcome video, overview, workbook and tracker arrive the week before we start.
Is it really 90% off?
Yes. The audios, tools, workbook and extras in the challenge sell separately in our shop for $169 in total. The founding cohort gets all of it for $17, which is 90% off, until the countdown ends on Thursday, November 12. After that the price is $27, and later cohorts won’t be offered the founding price.
How much time does it take?
Five minutes a morning, most of it with your eyes closed. Two minutes to read the email, or press play and skip the reading entirely.
What if I miss a day?
Do today’s. No catching up, no guilt. Every audio and tool is yours to keep, so the days you missed are waiting when you want them.
Do I have to listen to the audio?
No. The email has everything. The audio is for the mornings you can’t face reading, which, if you’re anxious, is some of them.
Is this therapy?
No. It’s daily practice, drawn from approaches therapists use, and every morning is reviewed by licensed therapists before it reaches you. It works well alongside therapy and it isn’t a substitute for it. If you’re in crisis, please reach a professional first.
What happens after day 30?
You keep every audio, every tool, your tracker and your Reset Plan. The cohort thread stays open inside our community, and you’ll get an invitation to continue there if you want to.
Day 1 is Monday, November 16. Be in the room.
Thirty days from now you'll either have a quieter mind, a kit you built yourself and a cohort who got there with you, or you'll have the same 11 pm. Five minutes a day decides which.
$169
$17
90% OFF
$169 $17
90% OFF
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No subscription
Full refund before day 1
P.S. When the countdown ends, the doors close and nobody joins this cohort late, at any price. The founding price and the 7 Nights of Sleep bonus are for the people who said yes first.
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